Episode 18: 毕业以后，我还没准备好长大

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“我也不知道，我现在算什么。”这是很多刚毕业一两年的年轻人，在咨询室里会说出的同一句话。学校的身份没了，熟悉的人散到了不同的城市，社会上好像也没有哪个位置，是专门留给“还在路上”的人的。这一期，我们借发展心理学和精神分析的视角，一起聊聊这段“被默认已经长大”的日子：它从哪里来，人在里面会经历什么，以及我们可以怎样重新理解“长大”这件事。

[00:08] 毕业了，我现在算什么？
[03:22] 心里还没长大，正常吗？
[11:09] 该自己硬撑，还是退回父母身边？
[17:48] 总觉得对自己不满意，很内耗？
[22:51] 越需要帮助越难开口，怎么办？
[28:52] 一回家就焦虑，这对吗？
[32:04] 怎样才算真正长大？

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